5 Cheats That Give You An Unfair Advantage On Dating Apps

Are you a guy on a dating app? Do you have trouble getting women to go out with you? Don’t know why? Unfortunately, the problem may be you. From hackneyed pick-up lines to photo bans to profile mistakes, here’s a roundup of the five most common mistakes men make when dating online – from a woman’s perspective. Do it right and maybe we’ll let you take us on a date.

Here are 5 cheats that give you an unfair advantage on dating apps:

1. Post photos that show off your personality

Don’t post photos of yourself holding a beer. Do you think we want to know what brand of beer you drink? This isn’t Sigma Pi and we don’t care. Don’t post photos of yourself that don’t show you. If you’re standing 100 meters away from the camera, your face is in shadow, or you’re wearing a hat, you’re messing with our guy.

If we can’t get a good look at you and figure out what kind of guy you might be, we probably won’t get within 100 yards of you. Don’t post photos of yourself looking ridiculous: dressed as a clown, covered in cake frosting, and decorated with Mardi Gras beads. We are looking for a partner, not a party animal. Post your latest photos where you look happy and handsome. Now we’re talking.

2. Be original

On a dating site, you’re just one guy in a crowded virtual room. If you want to meet women one-on-one, you need to stand out from the rest of the pack.

If your profile describes you as “nice”, “outgoing”, “friendly”, “sincere”, “funny”, “nice”, “adventurous” or “hardworking”, we probably fell asleep before we finished reading it. Next! Do you know how many other guys use the same words? All.

Get creative with your biography, create a thesaurus, and take chances. Tell us what makes you unique and different and we will recognize your uniqueness through the virtual fog. Don’t tell us you’re funny; be funny. Remember that you are selling yourself and the buyer is a woman. We don’t want to read a general, boring and stereotypical CV. We are emotional buyers and what you are really doing is finalizing the transaction.

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3. Use correct grammar and tell the truth

Women read everything in everything. But you already knew that, right? We check your profile, look at your statistics, look at your photos, scan your prose.

We try to understand who you are, in every detail. Since it’s a buyers’ market (ours!), we look for a reason to exclude you.

Take some time to refine your profile. A spell-checked, grammatically correct and well-written profile shows us that you are in good shape personally and professionally, and not some loser living in your mother’s basement. A survey by dating app Zoosk found that 48 percent of singles believe that bad grammar gets in the way of online dating.

Speaking of which, don’t distort the facts. If we date, the truth about your age, height and income will definitely come to light. Women are like hunting dogs when it comes to sniffing out BS. Honesty is hot.

4. Be specific in your messages

We know that it’s not easy to pick up a woman. Unfortunately, this does not make us more merciful. Start with a bad line and you’ll definitely be shot down or worse, ignored. “How was your weekend?” – You seem like an interesting person. – How are you today? Boring. “Do you have any photos of you in a bikini?” Pervert alert! “If you go out with me, I will be eternally grateful.” Yes, no.

Do you know what judges women? Specificity. Take the time to get to know her virtually and respond specifically to something in her profile. Whether it’s going to Coachella, eating cottage cheese with ketchup, or trekking to Machu Picchu, pay attention to the bonds that exist between us. Before you know it, we’ll say yes to your date request. Another important thing that women love? A 2021 study shows that women love kindness in men.

5. Ask her out quickly

Don’t message or text us forever. Get on with it now! Within the first five minutes of meeting you, we will find out whether you are the guy for us or not. Once we’ve gone back and forth long enough to feel comfortable, ask us out on a no-pressure date.

Drinks or dinner. No movies or trips to the beach. Follow the golden rule: KISS (Keep It Simple, Stupid). If you ask her out and she significantly hesitates, rejects you, or blows you off, move on to the next one. If we don’t jump at the bait, we probably won’t be as interested. Once you’re in the room together, it’s your business, buddy. Just remember one thing: making a girl laugh is one of the surest ways to win her heart.

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